By Iqaa Lee - 19:48:00

Hi girls, I'm back. Happy Friday to all my beautiful readers & enjoy your beautiful day. Today topic is quite interesting & quite different. People rarely talk about this topic & this topic is quite important in our life especially who want to change their life to become a better person. Did you girls still remember my previous post? I promise that I want to post/talk about this topic right? I do some research & I found some tips that can help. I know that everyone wants to become a better person, but some people doesn't know how. Including myself. But I'm try to do research over & over again and I found it ,& why not I share this simple tips to you girls. It may takes time to change, but why not if we just give a try right?  I suggest that please takes a piece of paper or just write down inside your journal/diary and put it as main goals for 2016 GOALS! Based on my experience , when I was around 14 to 16 , I think that life is all about to have fun when you're in teenager life. But I'm totally wrong. When I was 17, I started to realize that education is important&life is not only to having fun. When time moving & at the stage when we become an adult, many responsibilities and things that we need to do. And now I'm officially a 19 years old girl. So why not I try to change myself. And at the present moments I face some issues with my "stupid bloody college". I'm totally down right now, but it's okay, I'm try to be strong enough to face it *I'm sorry because I can't tell you girls the actual story, it's quite personal*. But lets move on to the tips that I wanna to share with you girls. REMEMBER PLEASE TAKE A NOTE ! List it as your tops main goals for 2016. 

1. Be Willing To Change
In order to become a better person, you have to be willing to change. Change is the only way to grow and progress into the person you want to become. Many people are against change, which can make it very hard to grow. When you keep an open mind and are willing to change, you are able to grow into the person you want to become.
2. Stop Making Excuses
For example 
When I first started my colleges ,I made excuses every time something went wrong. I would blame others.
Instead, I learn that taking accountability for your own mistakes is extremely important. I stopped making excuses, took the blame when it was truly my fault, and was able to achieve so much more. By understanding that I made a mistake, I was able to use my mistakes to learn which in turn helped me become a better person. I used to get bad result when I in semester 2, I used to blame my boyfriend because he didn't teach me accounts * I HATE ACCOUNTS* , but when in semester 3 I realize that it's not his fault, it's my fault . I try to work hard and I get 3.0&above (pointer) in my semester 3. And now I blame my mother because of the *stupid bloody college* , but now I realize when thing want to happen, it will happen too. 
3.Be A Role Model
Sometimes you need to be a role model to someone to really get your act together. For example you can start small and be a “big brother” to someone, coach a kids’ team, or be a role model to your siblings.  No matter what you choose to do, always make decisions that the person looking up to you will respect.
4. Forgive Someone
Forgiving someone who hurt you is very difficult to do. When I got upset at someone for doing something, I could never forgive them. Even if it was a petty thing, I would hold it against them for the rest of their lives which was not healthy.
I quickly learn that humans are prone to making mistakes. Instead of holding mistakes against them for life, try to forgive someone. To become a better person, go through your past and forgive someone that did something to hurt you.
5. Listen To People
People are extremely busy with their careers, families, and lives. Everyone is in a rush, but people rarely ever have time to listen to what others have to say. I learn that listening to people and giving everyone a voice is one of the greatest things you can do.
6. Be Honest
Honest people are hard to come by nowadays. However, honesty is the best remedy for any situation. Promise yourself that you won’t tell any lies for a month straight.
Challenge yourself to be honest by developing good habits. If you’re a compulsive liar, start small by trying to be honest for 1 day. After you accomplish a smaller goal, increase the goal by 2 or 3. *This tips maybe quite hard to do, especially when you hate someone you will lies. But lets give a try*
7. Do Something You Don’t Want To
Keeping an open mind and trying things that you wouldn’t normally do is a very easy way to become a better person. Take a risk and challenge yourself to try something you’ve always been scared to do. Like myself, I challenge myself to do a blog & be consistent and now I become a newbie blogger. Within a weeks I get 1000 viewers, thanks girls for supporting me. I hate typing or write a long easy, but I get used to it. 

I think that all from me,I don't want to type a long tips, it might be a such boring tips for you girls if I make it long. So, thanks for reading, keep updated to my latest posting and my advise is change yourself to be a better person&be brave enough to change. You will not regret! Trust me.


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